The Best Small Dogs for Kids

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Breeds By Kate Brunotts 14 min read February 10, 2020 2 Comments

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Getting a dog is one of the most rewarding experiences you and your family can enjoy.

Not only will your new-found Fido offer endless amounts of affection and love, but you’ll also find yourself with a whole new companion you can’t live without.

But this transition, however exciting, can be a challenge for busy families with kids. Luckily, we’ve compiled a list of the best small dogs for families with children.

These tiny breeds are perfect for family settings and are sure to be a wonderful addition to your home. While each individual dog is different, there are a variety of traits to look for when making your choice.

This will help you and your family make an informed decision when it comes time to pick out the perfect pup. 

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The 9 Best Small Dogs for Families with Kids

Based on the criteria above, we’ve compiled a list of nine of the best smaller breeds for families with kids. It’s important to take individual lifestyle factors into account, but in general, these are some great breeds to start with. 

1. English Bulldog 

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These friendly fellows (who are technically just called “bulldogs” now), are the perfect small dog for many families.

These dogs tend to weigh more than smaller breeds (usually up to 50 pounds), but they have very low-energy levels and love being petted by all members of the family. 

English bulldogs don’t require a whole lot of exercise, so they are pretty easy to keep happy.

Nevertheless, it’s important to keep their short snouts in mind during the hot summer months, as they’re prone to overheating. Another downside is that they tend to have numerous health issues, especially as they age, so consider if you’re up for those struggles later in life.

However, you’ll want to make sure your kids are ready for a good amount of cleaning — bulldogs drool and shed a lot by nature, but their affectionate, easy-going personalities help make up for it

2. Shih Tzu

Shih Tzus are spunky, happy little creatures who love to cuddle up at the end of the day. These pint-sized dogs weigh around 9 to 16 pounds making them the perfect size for families in need of a tiny four-footer. 

Shih Tzus enjoy playing, but they do not require a hefty amount of exercise. Plus, their short coats mean they require relatively little maintenance. 

However, this breed is notorious for presenting housebreaking difficulties, so make sure you invest in their training. Overall, this breed is a perfect companion for many families with kids.

3. Bichon Frise

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The ultimate social butterflies of the canine world, these adorable pups love to meet anything and anyone.

Bichon Frise dogs are known for their happy-go-lucky personalities and the great companionship they provide. The breed weighs in at about 7 to 12 pounds and requires about half an hour of exercise daily.

Bichon Frise pups love attention, so they may be best suited for larger families who aren’t away from home constantly.

While these dogs do not drool as much as other breeds, their unique, “hypoallergenic” coat does require special care to keep it in tip-top shape. 

4. Pug

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The iconic pug is known for being one of the cutest lap dogs around.

These funny dogs love attention and will often follow their humans from room to room.

They do not require a lot of daily exercise, which is nice, because special attention must be paid to their short-snouts that make it difficult for them to breathe, particularly in warmer climates. 

Pugs are a part of the toy group and only weigh about 14 to 18 pounds. These laid-back dogs are super friendly, so they probably won’t make the best watchdogs.

Overall, these little furballs make great companions for adults and kids alike. 

5. Cavalier King Charles Spaniel

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These sweet pups are sure to follow you around the house, and they love lots of affection.

The combination of their small size (they weigh about 10 to 18 pounds) and gentle nature makes them perfect family dogs for many. They are often playful but don’t require a lot of extra exercise.

If you get a King Charles Spaniel, you’ll want to make sure you have someone around for most of the day. These pups love being around their humans, and they don’t like being left alone. This often makes them a good choice for larger families.

Their coats require frequent and regular brushing, so make sure you’re adequately prepared (note that coat brushing is a great task many kids can handle).

6. Havanese

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Havanese pups are great small dogs for families with older kids.

These dogs love to learn tricks and are known for their sweet, playful nature.

While these dogs do require a bit more exercise than other toy breeds, they are still just as compact weighing in at 8 to 13 pounds.

These active dogs love spending time with humans and other pets when properly socialized. Their long coat requires regular brushing to maintain in top-notch shape, but their affectionate, spunky personalities are certainly worth the upkeep. 

7. Toy Poodle

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Poodles come in all shapes and sizes with toy versions usually weighing under 10 pounds. These dogs are known for their intelligence and devotion to family, making them great for households with kids. 

These dogs love to explore and romp around, so they’ll definitely require some more time outside than other toy breeds.

Their curious and loyal nature makes them great watchdogs — poodles are sure to alert you of the dangerous squirrel lurking in the front yard. 

Overall, these playful pups are great for active families looking for a dog eager to learn and explore the world around them.

8. Chinese Crested 

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These odd-looking but elegant pups are extremely loving, making them great for families.

However, their small, fragile size should be taken into account, especially for families with younger kids. They can become injured easily by rough play, so be sure to discuss proper canine interaction with your kids before adding a crested to the family.

Contrary to popular belief, these dogs still require regular grooming. They usually range anywhere from 5 to 12 pounds and are the perfect lapdog.

They have a low tendency to bark and drool, so you’ll love making these peaceful pups a part of your family. 

9. Beagle

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Beagles are a bit larger than some of the other dogs discussed above, ranging in at 18 to 30 pounds. But their playful, cheerful nature makes them a great pick for an active household with kids.

This breed loves to run around outside and is very friendly, though they are likely to bark at strangers (and generally cause a lot of noise — this is a very vocal breed).

These dogs love affection and have enough curious energy to keep your kids entertained. However fun, these pups may be challenging for families with younger kids since they demand a heavy amount of attention. 

Bonus: Mutts!

While it’s difficult for us to generalize the characteristics of mutts, mixed breeds can often be a great addition to families with kids.

Mutts generally have a great mix of characteristics based on their unique identity, which often mellows out any extreme personality traits their ancestors exhibit. 

However, every dog is different and should be treated on an individual basis. Whenever you go to adopt any dog, including mutts, make sure you have a prepared list of adoption questions to ask regarding the individual dog’s temperament. 

You can use some of the factors we described above to help craft your questions (we also have a fantastic dog adoption scorecard you can use to help evaluate your most important canine traits). For example, a good question to ask would be:

  • What’s the dog’s energy level like?
  • What’s he like around small children? Other pets? Babies?
  • Why was this dog surrendered to the shelter?

At the end of the day, mutts are a mixed bag, and you’ll have to accept a bit of uncertainty when adding them to your family. However, great temperaments are not guaranteed with purebreds, either.

Nevertheless, mutts often make great companions for many families

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Considering Adoption? Try an Older Dog

Adopting an adult dog to bring into the family fold is a wonderful choice with numerous benefits, but there are a few things you’ll want to keep in mind.

  • Adult dogs (usually) need less training. Adopting an adult dog often means you won’t need to worry about housebreaking and the multitude of training challenges that occur with a puppy. This is great for busy families!
  • Ask about the dog’s history with kids. Many shelter dogs have previous experience with kiddos, and shelter workers will be able to point you in the direction of the best child-loving canines.
  • Consider a dog that’s five years or older. Five tends to be the magic year when dogs chill out a bit and have firmly established their personality. If an adult 5-year-old dog loves kids, that’s not something that’s likely change, so they’re a safe bet!

Selecting a Small Dog for Your Kids: Important Considerations

So what makes a small dog well-suited for family life? We’re glad you asked!

Here are a couple of important factors to take into account when picking out the perfect pooch for your home. 

Pick a Pooch with a Friendly Personality

You’re going to want to look for breeds with a relaxed, friendly personality.

While some people love sassy, independent breeds, agreeable dogs are much more likely to get along with kids (especially if they accidentally pull your pup’s tail every one in-a-while). 

However, picking a more agreeable breed type is not enough on its own. Make sure you dedicate an adequate amount of time to socialize your dog properly and introduce him to children of a variety of different ages

Look for a Breed with a Low Energy Level

If you have kids, your life is bound to be busy. Hence, it is often a good idea to look for a lower-energy breed since your attention is likely divided.

High-energy dogs can become depressed and destructive if not cared for properly and provided with sufficient stimulation, so it’s important that you only get a high-octane hound if you’re sure you can give him the care he needs. 

Should you have older kids who would be more inclined to take on the responsibility of a dog, have a sit-down conversation about daily routines with and without a dog.

If your kids are willing to contribute to the care of their new furry friend, then you may have more leeway in this category. 

Use Care If Your Family Has Allergies

Having allergies and loving dogs can be a difficult balance. Life isn’t very fun without a good dog, but neither are watering eyes and running noses.

Unfortunately, no dog is fully dander-free, but you can seek out breeds that produce relatively little allergy-inflaming dander and require less coat maintenance to limit your exposure to allergens. 

Luckily, by virtue of their diminutive dimensions, smaller dogs produce less dander than larger breeds anyway, so you’re already heading a step in the right direction. 

Don’t Pick a Super Shedder

Shedding level is another factor that plays into allergies, but also home maintenance. So, unless you enjoy running a lint roller over all of your furniture and carpets, pick a smaller breed that sheds relatively little to keep your home as clean as possible.

This will also prevent you from having to color-coordinate your clothing with your dog’s coat. 

Try to Select an Easy-to-Train Breed

Everyone knows that new dogs require a lot of attention, and you definitely don’t want to skimp out on training.

This means you’ll want to look for breeds with higher levels of intelligence and a desire to please their people, who can be trained more quickly than their lovable-but-dim or independent counterparts.  

Depending on the age and maturity of your kids, they may be able to assist in the training process. 

Pick a Pooch with Patience

A patient pup is especially important for families with younger kids who may be more prone to accidentally crossing your dog’s boundaries.

Accordingly, you’ll want to look for a dog with a gentle, forgiving temperament, who’s willing to endure the indignities your children may inflict

Avoid Breeds with Serious Health Concerns

Some breeds can be more prone to certain health issues or concerns than others, resulting in a short life span. On the other hand, some breeds tend to live without suffering from many of these tragic (and expensive) health problems. 

So, make sure you research your breed appropriately so that you and your family can be prepared down the road.

You don’t want to bring home a pup for the fam, only to end up dealing with heartbreaking (or bank-account-busting) health problems. 

Before You Bring Home Your Dog: Preparing Your Kids

Bringing a dog into your home is not just an adjustment for Fido himself — your kids must also be adequately prepared to keep themselves and your pup safe while playing at home.

Here are a couple of steps to ensure mutual safety for your fur babies and kids. 

1. Learning The Proper Way To Pet Their New Pet

If your child doesn’t know already, make sure they are asking permission every time they want to pet an unfamiliar dog. Let them know that they should never approach a dog by immediately trying to pat him on the head.

Instead, teach your child to:

  • Reach out a cupped palm a few inches away from her body and let the dog come to her
  • Pat gently and avoid sensitive areas like the eyes or snout
  • Not pet dogs while enjoying a treat or meal

Just as young kids are still learning on how to read human social cues from their peers, they’re also not likely to be very familiar with dog body language either.

Dogs have many subtle calming signals they’ll display when uncomfortable, but us humans need to learn how to read those cues!

For any family bringing a new dog into the home, I’d recommend getting the “Dog Smart Card Game” from Good Dog in a Box. This game is designed to teach kids how to recognize canine warning signals in order to prevent bites – a valuable tool for any family!

2. Explain Dog-Related Responsibilities

If your kids are old enough to carry out chores, try to explain all the responsibilities that come with a dog as thoroughly as possible.

Kids should understand that dogs are living, breathing things that require lots of love and care like any other family member.

If possible, borrow a friend’s dog (or foster a local shelter dog) and show your kids what comes with walking a dog, grooming properly, and picking up poo.

If your kids can’t help care for a week-long canine visitor, you may want to reconsider introducing a full-time furry family member.

Any kid begging for a puppy should be prepared for the care that comes with adopting a new family member.

3. Learn Basic Leash Safety

If your kid is old enough to take your new pooch out on walks, make sure they know the proper way to hold a leash and conduct a walk to stay safe.

Regardless of your child’s leash handling skills, you’ll want to supervise the first few walks your little one leads, just to ensure she can do so safely. 

4. Teaching Your Pup Tricks

Teaching your dog tricks can be a great way for your kids to bond with their new dog. Make sure your kids know how to use positive reinforcement to train your new pooch and take care not to get frustrated in front of your dog. 

Teach your dog the basic skills he’ll need (sitting, laying down, etc.), but also be sure to let your kids teach your new pooch some fun and silly tricks, like learning to say “I love you!”

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Bringing a pup into your home is a life-changing experience your family is bound to cherish forever. Small dogs can pack plenty of personality while still remaining excellent companions for adults and kids alike.

Do you have any of these small breeds? Which small dog makes your family bigger and better? We’d love to hear all about it in the comments below!

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Kate Brunotts

Kate is a dog-loving content specialist with over a decade of canine-care experience. She is currently a professional dog walker and pet sitter, with previous experience working at the Heart of Chelsea Animal Hospital in Manhattan. When not spending time with four-footers, she can usually be found crafting top-notch dog-care articles that pet parents can trust. Kate loves dogs of all shapes and sizes, but Bernese Mountain Dogs hold a special place in her heart.

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Theresa Borden

Our family rescued a fun loving chihuahua mixed puppy 2 weeks ago. He is only 3 1/2 months old but is learning commands quickly and responds to my husband and 13 year old son well also, though they are unable to work with him as much as I am. He has a lot of energy and likes to use his mouth to play. This is what we are working on now since I do not want him thinking it is ok to use his little teeth when playing with human hands. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

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Ben Team

He sounds like a cutie, Theresa!
Check out this article on mouthing affection — it may help.
Best of luck!

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